Singles, couples, and premarital

PAIRS NYC on behalf of a safer, saner, and more loving world.

Helping people create positive changes in their relationships.

About Us


The Mission of PAIRS NYC is to teach those attitudes, emotional understandings and behaviors that nurture and sustain healthy relationships and to make this knowledge broadly available on behalf of a safer, saner, more loving world. 

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What is PAIRS NYC?

Intimacy is critical to the process of developing and sustaining close relationships. Modernization has shifted the primary function of marriage from providing security, stability, and raising children to developing a lifetime of love and intimacy.  Modern marriages require greater interpersonal competence as well as equality between partners in peer relationships. 


The Goal of PAIRS is a relationship that both partners can live with joyfully. For this to happen, each partner must become able to identify his or her own feelings and needs, and learn to communicate them in such a way that they can get met. This means communicating one's needs and desires without making the other partner feel resentful, smothered, burdened, manipulated, or inadequate.